Don't Settle for Less

A gap between the real socioeconomic power of women and their perceived financial independence following the women's movement has left women losers in the divorce arena, argues family lawyer Pekala. Starting with the crucial selection of a competent attorney, this excellent, comprehensive and accessible guide answers the psychological, financial and legal questions that may arise before, during and after the divorce proceedings. Pekala also looks at the pros and cons of prenuptial and cohabitation agreements and pays special attention to the most important questions about children: custody, visitation rights, ``deadbeat dads'' and psychological parents (adults who have helped raise a child and consider themselves a parent despite a lack of a biological or legal relationship). Pekala's book gives women a better shot of getting what lawyers define as a good settlement, ``when neither side is happy.'' (Jan.)