cover image Stuck: Why We Can't (or Won't) Move On

Stuck: Why We Can't (or Won't) Move On

Anneli Rufus, . . Penguin, $23.95 (336pp) ISBN 978-1-58542-667-6

Rufus (Party of One ) investigates why in a time when “no population anywhere has ever been so free... somehow we all feel stuck,” sorting various feelings of paralysis into six major categories: we are stuck in the past, stuck in the present, creatures of habit, addicted to trauma, co-dependent and unwilling to find job fulfillment. Almost immediately, the author becomes hopelessly tangled in an entire nation's neuroses that won't conform to neat classifications that are meant to accommodate afflictions as diverse as shellshock, obesity, procrastination, infidelity and being constantly late. Rufus undermines her own points often, because she provides scant evidence to buttress her frequent lament that things just aren't the way they used to be. “It's as if a generation has lost faith in going out to seek their fortunes,” she contends, but provides no data to prove that more adult children are living with their parents than in previous generations. The book combines an uneasy mixture of pop psychology and glib analysis. While Rufus's premise is provocative, it remains mired in poor presentation and groundless assertions. (Dec.)