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Grandma's True Romance
August 21, 2007


When I was growing up, my grandma lived next door.  A lot of times I stayed overnight with her and loved the special treatment I received (at home I was the oldest of nine...no special treatment there).  I could stay up late, watch whatever I wanted on TV (of course, there were only 4 stations to choose from and her favorite show was Gunsmoke), have great snacks (like ice cream with chocolate syrup) and read her True Romance magazines. 

Nowadays that seems pretty mild, but back then it was the height of risque reading.  All those sordid stories of women that had been wronged and the men who helped right everything.  <sigh>  Of course, I never considered why my grandma had them.  Even though she had been widowed for many years, I could never have even conceived of the idea that she might need a little romance in her life.  (And thinking back on it, she was younger than I am now...and I sure need my romance!!)

Why is this coming back to me now like a repressed memory?  Well, while I was talking with Marilyn Puett of The Writing Playground at RWA, she mentioned that she wrote stories for True Romance.  I was shocked!  I didn't even know it was still around.  So, what a terrific surprise to find 2 copies in my mail compliments of Marilyn.  I took them to show my sisters and the first thing everyone said was, "Grandma used to read these!"  We reminisced while paging through and the moment was even more poignant because this month it has been 15 years since Grandma passed away. 

I know Grandma would have laughed at the thought of her reading women's fiction, but that's exactly what these stories were.  She always swore they were real and more often than not knew someone it had happened to.  Grandma never read books, but she always had her "stories." 

So, thank you to Marilyn and all the other writers who contribute to these magazines.  'Cause sometimes us women, who don't have time for big books, just need a "quickie."

Bottom line:  Grandma always said day old bakery had only 1/2 the calories...we miss your words of wisdom, Gram...and you.


Posted by Barbara Vey on August 21, 2007 | Comments (9)


August 21, 2007
In response to: Grandma's True Romance
Danniele AKA Angel commented:

Cool! Yes, we're very proud of our Marilyn, who sold her 17th story to the Trues just this past week. And her stories often come from things she's read on the Internet or friends that she knows. Reality is often stranger than fiction! Danniele www.writingplayground.com




August 21, 2007
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Amanda commented:

I guess I'm too young to remember some of this stuff (I'm 20), but feeling a closeness with your Grandma we can all identify with (hopefully). I'm going out and buy my Grandma (she's a young 55) a copy of this magazine and put a big bow on it. I can't wait to see her face! (Of course, I plan to read it too)




August 21, 2007
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mary s commented:

Thanks Barbara--I have fond memories of my Grandma including romance magazines (no wonder she & Grandpa had 17 pregnancies!!), hundreds of decks of cards & Army "Al Capp" comic books (5 of her sons & 1 of her daughters served in the armed forces, out of 11 surviving children) so I know those wonderful times of family sleep-overs that yielded some fun adult secrets sometimes! It is so great to read & respond to your blog!




August 21, 2007
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Marilyn AKA Playground Monitor commented:

Wow! Just how cool is this? I remember my aunt having these magazines but I never read them. I read her movie magazines instead. When I sold my first story last year, I told my mom and she said she read them when she was a teenager during the war years. It's been fun and rewarding to write for them, and as we speak I'm brewing up another story to submit. Thanks for the shout out. I sent the URL to my editor. Oh... the cover on the right has one of my stories on it. I wrote "Love on the Slopes." Mariyn




August 21, 2007
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Terry Spear commented:

I love writing for True Romance and enjoyed your article. My mother/grandmother never read anything like this, but every issue I get, my mother reads from front cover to back and shares them with all her friends. She's in her 80's and they all enjoy it! Hey, she has a 90-year-old boyfriend. Who says senior citizens don't need romance?!! Great article!




August 21, 2007
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Jody Allen commented:

Barbara, thanks for the memories. When I was a little kid in the early 60's I had a neighbor who was a teen and she wanted to be a hairdresser. She and her friends loved to listen to the teen music and dance, so I would volunteer to be her victim and let her cut and fix my hair. I was 10 and wanted to hang with the big kids and learn all the dances. She had her room set up like a beauty parlor and yep complete with these magazines. It was the only time I got to read them (what my mom didn't know wouldn't hurt her) and I loved them almost as much as hanging out with the big kids, Great memories.




August 21, 2007
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Dolphinover commented:

There was always a copy of True Romance in the waiting area where Mom worked. After school when I didn't want to take the bus I would go to Mom's work, wait and read a great story. This was a lot better than taking the city bus home.




August 21, 2007
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Vegasbaby commented:

Thanks for the tearjerker today. Being number 6 out of 9, I too also received alot of special time with Gram. I couldnt wait to read her stories and watch the Dean Martin show. I loved her words of wisdom like "dont crack your knuckles, no man will want to put a wedding ring on your finger" :) Thanks for the memories!




August 23, 2007
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violet s commented:

Thanks again Barb--your reminiscing about your Grandma was so poignant--your blogs are so wonderful!





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