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Another Sad Anniversary
August 30, 2007


It's been 10 years since Princess Diana died in the horrific accident that I partially blame on the world's obsession with the rich and famous. And while I did like her (our sons were born at the same time), I can't say I ever bought a magazine or paper because her picture was on the cover or an article inside (ok, maybe I browsed through them at the supermarket check out counter). But don't you feel that enough is enough?

I have seen West Side Story more times than I've shaved my legs, but when it gets to the end of the movie, I always hold out hope that maybe this time it will end differently. Tony won't die. The Bible under his coat will have stopped the bullet, he'll get bitten by a vampire and become immortal, Marty will come back from the future and save him...anything so he won't die. But, at the end, he still dies and Maria will forever mourn for him.

This is the way I see what is happening with the Princess Diana saga. The media plays the final scene over and over again and everyone wants the ending to change. We want our happily ever after and if a princess can't have it, then is it in the cards for any of us?

Is this why we cling to our precious books that give us what we crave and doesn't seem attainable in our real lives? There obviously is a reason that romance sells. And nothing is better than finding that perfect book that will give us a happiness fix no matter how many times we read it. So, the next time you hear someone mention Princess Diana, I want you to say, "Hey, I've got a great book for you to read."

Bottom Line: Watch West Side Story, but turn it off it at the scene when Tony is in Maria's bed and know that they live happily ever after.


Posted by Barbara Vey on August 30, 2007 | Comments (13)


August 30, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
joysannoh commented:

Barb, you come up with the best blog thoughts...




August 30, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
Leah commented:

Barb, I do the same thing with "Romeo & Juliet." I keep thinking, "Maybe she'll wake up earlier this time..." I guess that goes to show why we read romance: we all want the happy ending.




August 30, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
RevDeb commented:

Right on dear Sister, right on as usual!




August 30, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
Rick Speck commented:

I thought it was too much the first time. Yes, the world's obsession was a convenient factor, and just opening cnn.com (my homepage) gives me more tragedy and sensationalized destruction than I like to start my morning with, but let's face it, to focus on the moviesque qualities of our celebrity tragedies is entertainment, and therefore will go on until the public finds another show to watch. We create our own sensationalism when we focus on the tragedy of a work like West Side Story or Romeo and Juliet, forgetting that a beloved character's sacrifice is intended to bring understanding and peace to existing conflict.




August 30, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
Amanda commented:

I watched her wedding, I watched her death, I understand the magic. Romance books give me the magic, but also the happily ever after that I need after busting my rear in an unforgiving job, with cranky people and depressing real life world news.




August 30, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
Marilyn AKA Playground Monitor commented:

I watched the wedding and her funeral, but it pretty much stopped there. I decided not to gape, even if it was at only my TV screen. The family had endured enough. I haven't even watched any of the anniversary shows. I'm a HEA gal to the core and it just saddens me that Diana never got hers. I hope her sons are able to have true love in their lives even with the media attention. Perhaps William will learn from his father's mistakes and won't marry for the wrong reasons.




August 30, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
Andi commented:

This story is so hard to ignore. It's everywhere. I'm on my way to the video store to get West Side Story.




August 31, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
Liz Kreger commented:

I agree. I never really understood the public's "need to know" about celebrities, but I did watch the drama unfolding at Diana's death, but that's pretty much as far as I went. She was an admirable figure, just as human as the rest of us. I'm totally ignoring these shows about the speculation of her death. Let her rest in peace.




August 31, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
Kimberly AKA The Problem Child commented:

I've never watched WSS--strange, I know. I even checked it out of the library last week with the plan of finally watching it while I lazed on the couch--I mean, recuperated from knee surgery. Didn't happen. I did have a student get angry with me in class the first night we were discussing Romeo and Juliet because I mentioned how they both die at the end. I'd ruined the story for her. Hel-lo, I *might* accept that someone could live on the planet and not know they died, but seriously, if you'd just read the assignment... Sigh. Same thing with folks who were surprised the Titanic sank...




August 31, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
Barbara Vey commented:

Ok Kimberly, I have to ask, what grade do you teach? I remember in HS, our class went to see Romeo and Juliet with Olivia Hussey (and believe me, in the '60s this was hot stuff to see with your teacher). Anyway, I cried and cried (I think all the girls did and all the boys did a lot of eye rolling). Maybe you should have your class watch this movie (don't forget the popcorn)




August 31, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
Kimberly AKA The Problem Child commented:

Sadly, Barbara, this was a college student. (I'm guessing she was absent when R&J was taught in HS...) Oddly enough, I really like the R&J version with Leonardo DiCaprio and Clare Danes. But that's a whole 'nuther lecture...




September 17, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
violet s commented:

Thanks Barbara--the comment on shaved legs was so refreshing! My husband comments to me (summer & winter): "Don't you shave your legs anymore?" Hmm--only when in shorts or my bathing suit!! Your wonderful insight about why we cling to our precious books was great--why aren't you a therapist or a psychologist or a priest?!!




November 20, 2007
In response to: Another Sad Anniversary
PEANUT commented:

Politically correct





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