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If I Had My Life to Live OverMay 9, 2008
If I Had My Life To Live Overby Erma Bombeck If I had my life to live over, I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained and the sofa faded. I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace. I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth. I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried about grass stains. I would have cried and laughed less while watching television - and more while watching life. I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband. I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day. I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. ![]() Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle. When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner." There would have been more "I love you's".. More "I'm sorrys" ... But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute... look at it and really see it ... live it...and never give it back. So, take from this what you will, but smile for a while today and share that smile with those you love. Bottom Line: "Seize the moment. Remember all those women on the 'Titanic' who waved off the dessert cart." ~ Erma Bombeck Posted by Barbara Vey on May 9, 2008 | Comments (25)
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Christy commented: Barb, I'm sorry to hear you have family members are involved with a medical crisis. I wish them and you well. I, too, love the words of wisdom from Erma Bombeck. And I love how some words can make your day so much better. How some thoughts can change your entire attitude and outlook and make you see things so much more clearly. And the people who put these words together are simply amazing!
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Cindy Holby commented: Thank you so much. My dad has been battling cancer since last July and now is thankfully in remission. Now I'm trying to catch up and finish a book. This is a nice reminder before Mother's Day not to angst about the pages that aren't getting written and just enjoy the moments
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Scotdncr commented: Barb, I'm very sorry to hear about your family. I'll keep you all in my thoughts. I feel your pain. I lost my two aunts to cancer within 2 years of each other, my sister to cancer, my 15 yr old son to an accident. Then I nursed my mother through blindness and kidney disease from Diabetes until her death 21 months ago. And last week, my dad was diagnosed with cancer. It's very hard but I appreciated the opportunity to spend quality time with my family and tell them how important they were to me before their deaths. Stay stron! I love Erma Bombeck and particularly this piece. She always had a way of making you think.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over CJ Lyons commented: Barb, thanks so much for sharing this! As you know, while I was in Pittsburgh for RT I was commuting to the ICU to visit a sick relative, and now our family has two more relatives who have fallen ill....I'm going to pass this on to them.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over LighthouseLady commented: Barb I am very sorry about your family and the health problems...know that you and they are in my thoughts and prayers. I have always loved Eram Bombeck and her way of looking at the world.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Rebecca commented: Barb, how nice that you have given all of us a little giftby reproducing Erma's words in the midst of your sadness. I loved Ermaand miss her columns. I had a major brush with death last year and I have embraced some of Erma's philosophies. I wear more color and less black now. I take time to stop and smell the chocolate as well as the roses. Take care of yourself.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Margie Lawson commented: Barbara --- Thank you for sharing Erma's inspiring message. We all need to be reminded to give ourselves a daily kick in the patoot--so we take time to enjoy famiy, friends, the minutes of our lives.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Liza commented: Barbara, I'll keep your family in my prayers. So sorry to hear about the health problems.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Liza commented: Barbara, I'll keep your family in my prayers. So sorry to hear about the health problems.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Marilyn commented: I hope that you all have a speedy and full recovery. Thank you for the Erma Bombeck piece - she was timeless and helped us laugh at ourselves, which is a great release for us all.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Edie Ramer commented: Barb, I'm sending big hugs to you.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Amanda commented: I've always enjoyed Erma Bombeck's books. I plan to print this and pass it around. I know my priorities have changed. Thanks for posting this.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Jody commented: Thanks Barb, for this wonderful wakeup call. Its been a tough year medically for me and it seems i get one thing resolved and another rears its ugly head each a bit more trying than the previous one, but through it all you have to have faith and a great sense of humor. Erma had both and what she says is timeless.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Nancy Haddock commented: Barbara, to you and to all those with family in crisis - or who are in crisis themselves - prayers of healing and peace.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Susan in AZ commented: Erma also wrote a book about people who thrive despite having terrible diseases. The book is titled I Want to Grow Hair, I Want to Grow Up, I Want to Go to Boise. really. This is my favorite of her books because the subject is so awful, but her unique perspective made it so worthwhile to read. Perhaps you can get a copy for your family to share. Best wishes to them all. Susan
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Billie Warren Chai commented: I will keep your family in my prayers. Illness is hard on everyone not just the family.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Marjorie Liu commented: Barbara, keep safe. I'll be sending good thoughts in the direction of you and your family.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Karin Tabke commented: Barbara, sending hugs and prayers to you and your family.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Karin Tabke commented: Barbara, sending hugs and prayers to you and your family.
May 9, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Shari Anton commented: Mega hugs to you and yours. Hope all is sane soon! Erma's perspective was wonderful, and she's dearly missed. Now, did anyone cut the cheesecake? Pass me a slice, please -- with the whipped cream!!
May 10, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Minnette commented: I'll never pass up a dessert tray again... ~GRIN~
May 12, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Dan Blank commented: Barbara: this is so nice. Hope everyone in your family is doing well...
May 12, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Liz Kreger commented: I'd learned long ago to live for the moment. One thing I'd do different is remind myself I'm not superwoman and that I cannot do everything. You need to sit back and relax once in awhile. Prayers to you and your family.
May 14, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Lori Avocato commented: Barb,
May 15, 2008
In response to: If I Had My Life to Live Over Stacey commented: The only reason I picked up Erma Bombeck is because my Grandmother used to read her and laugh. She was a wonderful writer and I for one am glad that you sought to call out her work.
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