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This is Dedicated...To the One I Love
January 22, 2008


As I was perusing the internet last week, I came across this blog that Sabrina Jefferies wrote for the Goddess Blogs: 

You see, I’m a Dedication Whore. I like to spread the love around. I’ve dedicated books to my parents, siblings, writer friends in different assortments, son’s teachers, a group of Celtic musicians, my agent, my editor, coffeehouses I wrote at, and yes, hubby. It took a really big village to create THIS writer, and by golly I’m going to thank every one of them if I have to write 50 more books to do it.

But my way isn’t the only way. Some authors are One Dedication Ponies, who mention the same person every book–”To my mentor, Carrot Top, as always.” Then there are the Mysterious Dedicators, who’ll dedicate to “the blossoms of my life” or some other cryptic entity, making me wonder if they’ve taken a few too many hits of monitor cleaner. Some don’t dedicate at all–for reasons only they can explain (I will admit to having been in a bind once or twice myself and forgetting to put it in).

I do sometimes wonder if anybody reads them other than the dedicatee. 



The blog caught my eye because I was just thinking about this very topic...book dedications.  I always read them (subconsciously I think maybe someday I'll see my name there <sigh>).  But I also enjoy that little peek inside the author.  Does the author write the dedication

This is Dedicated to the One I Love...

before the book?  Or is it an after thought?  Do writers worry about hurting someone's feelings by not putting them in?  Is it an obligation?  And what happens later in life if you don't like that person any more (like the picture of you and that creep you took to your sister's wedding who's in all the pictures now and forever)?

Having not written a book myself, I get confused with the acknowledgements.  These are people who have helped you with the book, but just not enough to get a dedication?  Or you have to put their names in because it's expected?  And what's with all the dedications to editors?  Is that just a way to suck up for the next book?  (Just playing devil's advocate here)  Inquiring minds you know.

Any thoughts on the subject?  Any really great/weird/stupid/strange/heartfelt dedications you've read lately?   Who would your dedication be to?  Would you dedicate a book to someone if they paid you money?   :)                                  

Bottom Line:  I'd like to dedicate this blog today to everyone who's ever left a comment, because without you I don't think I'd ever know if anyone reads this stuff.
                                                 


Posted by Barbara Vey on January 22, 2008 | Comments (30)


January 22, 2008
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Jennifer LaBrecque commented:

Great topic, Barbara!! I have to confess that I always read the dedications. I think they're interesting. LOL, no I wouldn't dedicate a book because someone paid me to. My dedications are always sincere, even if the tone in which they're written is flippant. And you have a dedication coming your way, indirectly. My June '08 Blaze dedication reads: "To the guys and gals who show up at the Soapbox Queens blog (www.soapboxqueens.com). Y’all are the best!"




January 22, 2008
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Kimberly AKA The Problem Child commented:

I always read the dedications...and I'm thrilled to say I'm in a couple of them. (I guess sometime after your 50th book you have to really start looking for folks!) But I've already planned out dedications for the books I'll write one day. Call it optimism.




January 22, 2008
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Elizabeth Hoyt commented:

Yes. Yes, I will dedicate a book to someone who pays me money. You may send your four figure check to . . .




January 22, 2008
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Marilyn AKA The Playground Monitor commented:

I always read the dedications. I think they're so interesting and insightful. And I've been in about a half a dozen myself but didn't know til I had the book in my hands. It's really touching to open up and see your name there.




January 22, 2008
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Rika commented:

I always read them! Sometimes they become a tradition. Like Julia Quinn for instance. I always look forward to seeing how she is going to thank her husband this time. Love that I can look forward to it each time too. I do think its a peek into the authors life and like all readers, I want to know more about them! BTW, how EXCITING about Charlotte and Cousin Michael's story in mid-2009! I got sidetracked and checked our Sabrina's updated heiress' page. I can't wait. Until then... Less than a month until her next release. Yay! :o)




January 22, 2008
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Leah commented:

Elizabeth - I totally think you should hold out for five figures. ;-) I'm a dedicated dedication reader too. Maybe it's just industry nosiness, but I like to see who the editors and agents are (if they're mentioned), what other authors might be acknowledged, and are they the same ones who gave the book a blurb? And some of them can be really emotional. It's almost like getting a story before you even start the book.




January 22, 2008
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Liz Kreger commented:

Great blog, Barb. I always read dedications. I'm always interested in seeing who had a hand in that author's creation. In my first book, I dedicated it to my family (of course) and to first my crit partners, who were invaluable in making that book the best it could be. My second book I dedicated to my sister. This was the very first book I'd ever written and she's the one who listened as I bounced ideas off her head.




January 22, 2008
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Lynda/LighthouseLady commented:

I always read them first...and sometimes if there isn't one, I wonder why? Did the author forget? I enjoy reading them and it tells me a little bit about the author. (just noticed that my 'characters' to type to post this are NFL...go Pats!)




January 22, 2008
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MG Braden commented:

I always read the dedications too. I find them an interesting insight into the author's life (and sometimes not! lol). So far I have dedicated my books to my dh, to my dh and kids, to my cp and the one coming out in Aug of this year is a dual meaning dedication, which I won't get into here. LOL




January 22, 2008
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Beth Pattillo commented:

I'm glad to know that others share my fascination with dedications. I was so disappointed when the dedication page in my first book was inadvertently omitted. Being able to thank some very special people was one of the things I'd looked forward to most when I got published. :) Thanks for blogging on this topic.




January 22, 2008
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Sabrina Jeffries commented:

Barbara, I love your questions--they're so funny! I did dedicate a couple of books to my editor, but not to suck up--I just felt like she deserved it. But you're right, it's hard to consider who to dedicate to without worrying about hurting someone's feelings. Oh, and one of our goddess bloggers suggested that we should dedicate books to our favorite male stars so they'd show up at our houses in gratitude. I sure wish that would work, but I sort of doubt it would. What a pity--Colin Firth would be in every other book!




January 22, 2008
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Missy Taylor commented:

I always read the dedications and the acknowledgements and whatever else the author puts before the actual start of the book. One because obviously it was important enough to put there then I'm going to read it. Get my money's worth. ;) Also I've read some really great stuff in those pages before the book. MaryJanice Davidson (who is hilarious in person) cracks me up usually in her thank yous. She has written my favorite acknowledgement to date - she thanked herself. :D




January 22, 2008
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Diana Castilleja commented:

I usually read the dedications. I also try to name someone. Like Sabrina, it took a lot of people to help mold me, but I also try to find people who may have had something to do with that book. I really enjoy the little anecdotes. Usually they have some special meaning that only the author really gets, but that's okay. It means a real person wrote the story... And someday... I will too.




January 22, 2008
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Amie Stuart commented:

I read them....and I write them though with this last book, I actually didn't do a dedication. I DID however write the longest acknowledgment to date. I don't ever want to feel obligated to dedicate/acknowledge anyone--like a parental unit *cough* Um anyway...I figure my kids probably deserve the dedication more than anyone. I mean gaw they have to live with me! LOL Amie




January 22, 2008
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Minnette commented:

I read them, too. I think it does give an insight into the author, and it's nice to know they are never alone...thus the deducation, I hope. I've only written three books, but I dedicated each to the person who was most influencial in kicking my keister to get it done, then did an acknowledgement page for everyone else who helped. And yes...I'm ALWAYS scared to death I've left someone out! Strange & weird? I remember someone dedicating something to their pet...I think it was a parakeet...??? You never know. ~LOL~




January 22, 2008
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Jusy commented:

I read the dedications and acknowledgments after I finish the story. Yep, I'm nosy in wanting to know a bit more about the person who took the time to share their stories with me. I did have a silly grin on my face when I was in one, and my sister tried to pop my bubble saying that could be anyone.




January 22, 2008
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Dawn Chartier commented:

I read all the comments above, and it sounds like everyone loves to read the dedications. That's cool to know. I guess it sort of makes you feel like you know a little more about the author if they thank this person or that person.. I had a book dedicated to me once because I helped critique the book, I had no idea my name was there and stumbled across it. It felt really good to see it there... When I get pubbed I hope I do the honor of thanking all of those that helped me as well. Dawn Chartier www.dawnchartier.com




January 22, 2008
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Adelle Laudan commented:

As a reader, I enjoy reading the dedications. As an author, I look forward to being able to acknowledge those special people who have made a beautiful difference in my life.




January 22, 2008
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Terry Spear commented:

I love to read dedications and acknowledgements. Like several said, it gives some insight into the author, which is fun after she/he has shared such a wonderful story with me. I love writing them too. For the first time, I was able to acknowledge my editor, because without her falling in love with Heart of the Wolf!!! my mss would still be unpublished! www.terryspear.com




January 22, 2008
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Amanda commented:

I'm a reader and I love reading the dedications. It just personalizes everything for me.




January 22, 2008
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DC Stanfa commented:

I always knew I would dedicate my first book to my parents. The acknowledgements were another story. I ended up acknowledging my favorite watering hole, my chiropractor, a famous author I hoped would give me a blurb (and never did, and of course. My first acknowledgement was a no-brainer :To "All the men who didn't call. Without them this book would not have been possible."




January 22, 2008
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Shari Anton commented:

I read the dedications, and have put one in each of my books. I have a list of those special people who've helped me along the way, and figure I have to write at least 10 more books until I have them all covered :). Psst - I'll undercut Elizabeth by a figure. LOL!!!




January 22, 2008
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Gina Robinson commented:

Barbara--this topic is so timely for me. I'm just about to turn in the dedication and acknowledgments for my first novel, which comes out in November. I love reading dedications, but writing them was hard. Especially with a first novel, there are so many wonderful people I want to acknowledge. I don't want to leave anyone out. But I also don't want the acknowledgements to be longer than the book!




January 22, 2008
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Teresa D'Amario commented:

I dedicated my first book to my husband and a friend who always believed in. She cried. Hubby was embarrassed (his name mentioned in a ROMANCE novel??) LOL. But the ones I find odd is when the author dedicates the book to someone IN the book. I mean, a character! It is true, your characters do come to life in the books... they feel like your best friends. And many authors are known to cry when it's done. But I never would have thought to dedicate the book to one of them. LOL.




January 22, 2008
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Mark David Gerson commented:

Great topic!

I have to distinguish between acknowledgments (my Oscar-speech thank-you's) and dedications.

For both my books, the dedications were actually addressed to the reader.

“The MoonQuest” (a story about bards/storytelling): To the bard in all of us. May the stories, songs and dreams flow forever
“The Voice of the Muse” (book about writing): To the creator alchemist in us all

Acknowledgments were a bit trickier. Who do you thank? Who will be offended if you don't thank them?

For both books, I had several groupings:
- close friends who supported and inspired me through the process;
- teachers and/or professionals who helped with the project;
- places that inspired me while writing it; and, just for fun,
- the cafes I hung out in while writing/revising

The most bizarre response I had was from someone mentioned in the acknowledgements, who was upset that I hadn't acknowledged her enough.

You just can't please everybody!!

Mark David Gerson
www.markdavidgerson.com




January 22, 2008
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Christy commented:

Oh, I LOVE reading the dedications and acknowledgements! They usually do make me feel somehow closer to the author and/or story. My favorite dedication is from Catherine Anderson's Forever After, where she dedicates the book to her departed pet rottweiler, who inspired the rotti-character Goliath in the book. For me, Goliath *almost* became the hero in that book, lol, as he was just about as lovable as the true hero!!! And, yes. I am the mommy of 2 rottweilers and I completely understood Catherine's dedication!




January 23, 2008
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Abby Gaines commented:

I really like to dedicate each book to just one person, rather than make half a dozen people share the dedication. Which means I need to write an enormous number of books over the next few years. Once you tick off your parents and your husband, it's tough deciding who gets to go next. And, yes, I do worry about offending people, though that doesn't actually change what I do.




January 23, 2008
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Lucinda Betts commented:

I've only dedicated one of my books to my editor, and that's because she made me rewrite the first chapter like 100 times. Anyone with that much patience deserves a dedication!




January 23, 2008
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JamieKiffelAlcheh commented:

Excellent question. I always read them, too. Then l try to figure out: is that a husband? Secret lover? Cat? Someone who passed away? I can invent entire biographies based on "To Tim. For everything."




January 23, 2008
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Lori Devoti commented:

I dedicated Guardian's Keep to everyone who had sent me a fan mail of some sort for Unbound by first name. (By the time I had to send in the dedication--some came in too late.) I kind of dread coming up with dedications. The pressure!! It's almost as bad as trying to come up with something witty to write inside a book when a friend asks you to sign it. (I wimp out--just my name.) And like others, I read dedications. Maybe not every book I pick up, but an awful lot of them. Fun topic!!





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