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Books Loved and Lost: A Modern Tragedy
September 6, 2007


Yesterday I visited fellow readaholic, Rochelle.  

I pulled up, ran to the door and dragged her to the trunk of my car (no, I didn't push her inside...there was no room anyway).  As I've mentioned before, I've turned my car trunk into a mobile library.  I'm sure any neighbors who were paying any attention were wondering what shady dealings were taking place.  We spent the next 20 minutes rummaging through the boxes.  "Try this one, it's really good."  "Haven't read this yet, but I've heard great things about the author."  "Wow, great cover, I'll take it and I don't even care what the book's about (laughs and drools at the cover)."  "Hey, this is book two in the series, don't you have the first one?"  (You know, this isn't Barnes and Noble on wheels...it's just a 2002 Saturn)

After taking the shopping bags into the house (yes, I do supply shopping bags), the gabfest began.  We quickly managed to get through the "how's the family" stuff, but one topic came up and I'm still thinking about it today.  


Rochelle's husband is in the Coast Guard and they've had to move many times over the years.  As, I'm sure, has happened to us all, things tend to go missing during the packing/unpacking process.  Rochelle's biggest regret is the loss of a set of J. J. R. Tolkien's Lord of the Rings books, given to her by a special aunt when she was eleven.  She's read the books many times over the years and as I think sometimes happens, they take on a life of their own.   They no longer become books, but memories of time, places and people.



My lost book was The Godfather by Mario Puzo.  It was fall 1969 and I just graduated from high school that spring.  To prove my independence, I moved from Milwaukee to Los Angeles (of course, the fact that I was the oldest of nine kids and couldn't wait to have a room of my own might have played into it a little).   By Christmas I was so homesick I couldn't stand it and my mom (bless her) sent me a book.  I read it three times the first week because it made me think of home (no, not the Mafia part...the family part).  By January I was back in Milwaukee and that book stayed with me for years.  But, after several moves of my own, I can't find it.  I suppose the book itself isn't important, but the memories that it carries.

What about you?  Any special books that you've loved and lost?  Or any that would break your heart to lose?

Bottom line:   Don't try to give someone the second book in a series without having the first one in your trunk.

Posted by Barbara Vey on September 6, 2007 | Comments (18)


September 6, 2007
In response to: Books Loved and Lost: A Modern Tragedy
Rochelle commented:

Barb, Thanks for the Memories! I had a great time during our mini bookfest. I've already started in on my borrowed bag of goodies. Thank you for understanding my obsession with starting with the first book in a series!




September 6, 2007
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Kate Douglas commented:

My 1904 copy of Freckles by Gene Stratton-Porter. I think I've read it twenty times or more since my mother gave it to me when I was about ten or twelve, and she had read it for years. It's such a sweet story, but I still treasure it. And no, this one is the first book unpacked when I move and I will NEVER lend it!




September 6, 2007
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Christine commented:

I have many, many, many copies of "I Capture The Castle" by Dodie Smith. Sometimes I give them away (you have to be worthy) or loan them out but I make sure I always have a copy of my own.




September 6, 2007
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Fred Knowlton(www.toriasbooksandmusic.co commented:

I have several books that I would be devastated to lose: "The Satanic Verses" by Salman Rushdie(I have a 1st/1st of this since my senior year in high school, my original set of "The Lord Of The Rings"(which I received in 7th grade), and my copy of "Sophie's World" by Jostein Gaarder(loved this book so much I named my new baby girl Sophie)




September 6, 2007
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Lexi commented:

My copy of "I capture the castle" is wrinkled and bent, faded and water-stained, but to replace with a shiny new edition would be sacreligious. I would also deeply feel the loss of my copy of "The BFG" by Roald Dahl.




September 6, 2007
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Faye Hughes commented:

I've learned the hard way never to loan books that I love. (And by the hard way, I mean I must have replaced my copy of Tami Hoag's Guilty As Sin two or three times because I'd loan out my hardcover and never get it back. lol.) Faye




September 6, 2007
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Alana Abbott commented:

How delightful! Sherwood Smith (sartorias) was just blogging about something similar--how even worn out copies of books are alive and well on her shelves--in her livejournal yesterday. I actually began buying books so I could loan them to friends, because the public library I grew up with had a marvelous collection that, sadly, wasn't repeated in the community where I went to college. I love the idea of your mobile library! The book I'd be saddest to lose is a copy of Number the Stars I received as a reward for the summer reading program when I was between third and fourth grade. The children's librarian inscribed a note in the front, hoping that I'd like it despite its not being fantasy. That's always meant a lot to me--and probably opened my brain to read outside my chosen genre!




September 6, 2007
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NANCY SILVERROD commented:

I had many beautiful books as a kid, including a boxed set of Alice in Wonderland and Alice Through the Looking Glass; as well as one with Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights with very eerie woodcut illustrations. Also all the collections of New Yorker Cartoons. My mother made us get rid of everything that wouldn't fit into a VW Bus when we moved to California....As an adult, I've been sorry to lose much of my collection of Colette's works during my many moves.




September 6, 2007
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Pamela Mason commented:

I too learned the hard way about loaning books out. For some reason I had a compulsion to share the joy I received from books. The book that stopped that was The River is Wide by Pat Conroy. After that, I would give the books I loved as gifts hoping they would bring the same joy to others.




September 6, 2007
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Liz Kreger commented:

Tough question. There have been so many books over the years that I’ve read and loved, but none that I actually lost and/or loaned out. I generally get my books back when I loan them out. Probably because I’d hunt it down after x amount of time has gone by. Some of my favorites I won’t loan out. "Down to a Sunless Sea" by David Graham is one of my favorites and one that I’ve read and re-read numerous times over the years. That, and "Swan Song" by Robert McCammon. www.lizkreger.com




September 6, 2007
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Dolphinover commented:

As a rule I don't lend out my favorite books. I would rather give a copy to some one. That way I don't have to worry about getting it back. A favorite of mine is The Witch of Blackbird Pond by Elizabeth George Speare. I still have it. I was in my teens when I first read it.




September 6, 2007
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RevDeb commented:

One of my first favorites - I have many -was "Catcher in the Rye". I read it in high school and have that torn, fadded yellow copy! I will not part with it. It was a liberating read at the time. I remember doing a part of it for a dramatic speech in forensics. The judge at the time - a nun - scolded me for using such rubbish! I had even taken out the swears! Books are indeed like friends holding memories. At times just seeing them on my shelf is enough to make me smile or cry!




September 6, 2007
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joysannoh commented:

Forty-some years ago my dad brought home a box of old books in which was a copy of Pollyanna by Eleanor H Porter. I can't be certain, but I'm believe it was a 1st edition, copyrighted 1913. It had a pink textured satin (silk?) cover and wonderful plates(?) with tissue paper protecting the art. I must have read it a dozen times. Years later, my mother, unable to judge that it was any more valuable than any other old book laying around, got rid of it after I left home. I think of that often and still feel its loss like that of an old friend. I guess that indicates one difference between a reader and a non-reader – the ability to recognize a book as greater than an object that requires dusting.




September 6, 2007
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Brenda commented:

The book that’s a touchstone for me is “The Patchwork Girl of Oz”. Every summer when I stayed with her, my grandmother would read it to me. Eventually, when I could read it to her, she gave it to me. I still have it.




September 7, 2007
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CHRISTINE commented:

My sister Jean gave me the 4-volume set of A.A. Milne's Winnie-the-Pooh for my 7th birthday (she inscribed them). She died from breast cancer so I would be devastated to ever lose them.




September 7, 2007
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Pat commented:

IWISH I could find my copy of Freckles!!!




September 8, 2007
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violet s commented:

Good evening Barbara! This blog was very enlightening--thanks--you make my day!




September 10, 2007
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violet s commented:

Thanks Barbara for this memory--I gave my beloved collection of Bobbsey Twins, Nancy Drew & Hardy Boys books (small hardcover) books to some of my grandchildren to read & I think their parents (my children & in-laws) gave them away! Those were treasures to me, but I guess not to them. I had asked for them back, but they were passed on to other siblings in the families. No hard feelings just lost memories!





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