Oddly Normal: One Family’s Struggle to Help Their Teenage Son Come to Terms with His Sexuality

John Schwartz. Gotham, $26 (304p) ISBN 978-1-592-40728-6
In this moving account of a family’s journey to raise and protect their gay son, New York Times correspondent Schwartz begins with his son Joe’s suicide attempt, discovering afterwards that his son had come out to his classmates that afternoon. Joe’s parents had always suspected the youngest of their three children might be gay, playing with dolls and wearing pink lightup shoes, but he had only coyly revealed his sexuality to his parents a week before his suicide attempt. With an unusual condition therapists variously diagnosed over the years as Asperger’s, bi-polar, ADHD, among others, school was always a challenge for Joe. With the growing awareness of his sexuality, however, came increasing sensitivity to fellow students’ homophobic slurs and taunts, as well as a growing realization that he was “different” and even that there was something possibly wrong with him. Schwartz recounts in sometimes painful detail his and his wife’s difficulties in getting Joe the help he so desperately needed, from working with school officials on appropriate ways of dealing with Joe when his condition overwhelmed him, to joining the Youth Enrichment Services at the Gay Center. With the new support, Joe thrived. Equally humorous and heartrending, this memoir reveals just what it takes to raise children who are different in a world still resistant. Agent: Rafe Sagalyn. (Nov.)
Reviewed on: 10/01/2012
Release date: 11/08/2012
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