cover image Aren’t You Forgetting Someone? Essays from My Mid-Life Revenge

Aren’t You Forgetting Someone? Essays from My Mid-Life Revenge

Kari Lizer. Running, $22 ISBN 978-0-7624-6933-8

TV scriptwriter and producer Lizer, creator of the show The New Adventures of Old Christine, debuts with a rollicking and often hilarious compilation of observations on life after her three children have departed for college. Lizer devotes some space to men and women’s different experiences of the workplace, particularly hers as a divorced, working mom, but devotes most of the text to empty-nest syndrome and its effects on her outlook. Now in her mid-50s, Lizer is “finding my voice... just when I have no one left to talk to.” She lists things she doesn’t want to ever do again (wear high heels or false eyelashes; attend parties where people ask intrusive questions about her career) and the things she does want to do (have “three dogs at all times” with her; not have to worry about her appearance; get more sleep). And despite the obstacles life throws her way—her sister’s death, a breast cancer scare—Lizer soldiers on, cheerily bringing the family dachshund to comfort her father in his nursing home, getting her first tattoo, and with some trepidation, starting “nervous dating.” Readers will enjoy these challenging and sweet stories. (Apr.)