Confessions of a Christian Spinster: Finding Purpose in a Perplexed and Paired-Up Church

In this disappointing debut, Plummer attempts to guide readers through the trials and joys of Christian singlehood. While being unattached is often looked down upon in faith settings, Plummer writes that it’s actually a gift, as it affords the “time, energy, and ability to focus fully on Christ and his kingdom.” Drawing from her experience as an unmarried 30-something in a church community full of well-meaning matchmakers, Plummer argues that single folks can grow closer to God through small acts, such as finding new ways of praying or keeping God in mind throughout the day. They should also guard against “temptations of the flesh,” and know that sex or pornography can’t “fix a lust problem” since God is the only “source of lasting satisfaction.” While Plummer’s tone is appealing, regressive undertones (such as the admonition that “when we ignore modesty in how we dress, we make it easy for men to justify their lustful desires”) and sometimes bizarre advice (to avoid masturbation, she recommends “sing[ing] or meditat[ing] on Scripture as you go to sleep”) will alienate believers seeking modern guidance. This is an easy one to skip. (May)