cover image Mother Mysteries

Mother Mysteries

Maren Tonder Hansen. Shambhala Publications, $15 (304pp) ISBN 978-1-57062-252-6

Neither a run-of-the-mill manual for new mothers nor a collection of amusing anecdotes about mothering, this book is instead a treasure-house of angry, poignant, fearful, ethereal and painful observations on the subject, revealing fascinating mythological parallels to the deeply personal experiences of present-day mothers. From assuming that she ""knew what it meant to be a mother,"" to being ""abducted"" by the Great Mother Goddess into the realm of ""the collective feminine soul,"" California psychotherapist and former Unitarian minister Hansen guides readers through her own transition ""from maiden to mother."" Through three pregnancies and births that, she says, marked turning points in the growth, ""death"" and rebirth of her family, Hansen leaves no stone unturned, no topic taboo, no feeling unexamined. Many of the common experiences that women share but rarely talk about are illuminated by her bright focus. Equally brought to light is the succession of emotions she experienced during and after giving birth: her extremely painful first delivery, her unreadiness to leave the hospital after three days, her hypervigilance for her infant's safety, her stress and rage after months of colic and, finally, her feelings of love and joy. This is a thoughtful, honest, wonder-filled exploration of one of life's most common, yet very special, spiritual paths. Photos. (Nov.)