cover image A Man’s Responsibility: A Jewish Guide to Being a Son, a Partner in Marriage, a Father and a Community Leader

A Man’s Responsibility: A Jewish Guide to Being a Son, a Partner in Marriage, a Father and a Community Leader

Joseph B. Meszler, . . Jewish Lights, $21.99 (171pp) ISBN 978-1-58023-362-0

Meszler, rabbi of a Reform congregation in Sharon, Mass., has been interested in the role of men in Judaism since he first led a men’s study group as a newly ordained rabbi. This book is based on his experiences with such groups, mingled with modern psychology and Jewish teaching. He devotes a chapter each to Jewish men as sons, fathers and marriage partners, the term he prefers to “husband” since it reflects his belief that men and women ought to be equal and balanced in marriage. He argues persuasively that the roles of Jewish men can be greatly enhanced when hackneyed conventions yield to contemporary demands without abandoning basic Jewish tradition. Meszler concludes with two thoughtful chapters on the roles of men in the synagogue and in the Jewish community. He acknowledges what he calls the problem of “male flight” and recognizes that synagogues need to do more to persuade men to accept social responsibility within the Jewish community while maintaining their engagement in more general causes. Each chapter ends with a useful series of provocative questions. (Sept.)