Loving Bravely: 20 Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want

Psychologist Solomon, a clinical professor in the department of psychology at Northwestern University, directs readers down the road of self-discovery, positing that relational self-awareness is the key to intimate relationships. Divided into four parts%E2%80%94self-reflection, self-awareness, self-expression, and self-expansion%E2%80%94the book is modeled after an undergraduate course Solomon teaches called "Building Loving and Lasting Relationships: Marriage 101." She doesn't preach that love is perfect%E2%80%94"core issues will get stirred up again and again in intimate relationships"%E2%80%94but guides readers with 20 lessons accompanied by sets of exercises through which they learn to explore and create healthy boundaries, listen to their gut instincts, and forgive themselves and others. The tone of the book is empowering and compassionate, and its lessons are universal. (Feb.)