Pornified: How Pornography Is Transforming Our Lives, Our Relationships, and Our Families
Pamela Paul, Author . Times Books $25 (304p) ISBN 978-0-8050-7745-2
Having already carved out a major niche among 20-to-30-somethings with
For this pornograph, Paul interviewed more than 100 people—80 of them young, straight men. Some findings are predictable: porn allows men "to enjoy the fantasy of endless variety," but can distract men from their partners, detract from their sexual skills and harm relationships. More valuably, Paul finds women caught under new forms of social pressure—from men and women—not to disdain porn: to do so, now, is (among other things) to be seen as limiting women's sexual self-expression.
Paul also sees porn seeping ever sooner into preteen life and sensibly observes that there's no reason for porn to be limitless on the Net when it's regulated elsewhere. Still, a critique that aims to avoid religious conservatism's invocation of sin and radical feminism's emphasis on civil rights violations can get fuzzy. Like Potter Stewart ("I know it when I see it"), Paul can't always distinguish sex-related art from pornography other than on a case-by-case basis; things get especially thorny regarding the torture and pain that, she asserts, "many, perhaps most men, find alluring." She ends up arguing that pornography, like alcohol or cigarettes, should be "discouraged," and proposes an effort by the government and private sector to quell consumer demand.
Paul's outlines and analyses can seem simplistic, and her prose rarely rises above the level of the
Reviewed on: 06/20/2005
Release date: 09/01/2005
Paperback - 304 pages - 9780805081329
Hardcover - 304 pages - 9780805077452
Open Ebook - 320 pages - 9781429900799